I Need to Get Laid
I’ve come to one small conclusion. I desperately need to get laid, it’s been way too long. I’ve made out with several girls, been on several dates but I just want a one night stand to break my streak. My friend called me and left a message last night telling me how much better he feels, how much more he wants to get in shape, how much happier he is since he started sleeping with this girl last week. I want that, I’ve been on several dating sites not solely for this person. Of course I’d love to find the one and I’d take a girlfriend with dependable sex, I’m desperate and I’m starting to check these dating sites out for ugly girls just to get over my hump. Last night I had sex was July 2007.
Yoga Chicks
I’ve been told that a lot of guys go to yoga to pick up women. I’ve also read that women hate this because they are there to workout looking “unattractive” and thus not looking for guys. People always assume I go to yoga for that reason because in my class I’m the only guy under 30, hell under 40 with 20+ girls in every class. I play along with it because I’m suppose to be a guy and that’s all we’re allowed to think about.
Though their is just something hot about a girl who is flexible and all girls aren’t ever like guys when it comes to this, I don’t dare approach a girl before, during or after yoga class. I do admire and get turned on in class. Yet again, I live for tomorrow and not today. If I lived for today, I’d just say what I want to girls assuming I’d never ever see them again if turned down. I worry about future encounters or her making fun of me to her friends. Hopefully tomorrow I’ll overcome these fears.
Female Grocery Store Shopper
After going to the gym and needing some basic groceries in order to eat cheap and healthy at home, I see this gorgeous girl, a fellow shopper. There seems to be something inherently good about making someone feel good about themselves without wanting anything from them. Our society doesn’t seem to cherish this. If I had the guts/balls to talk to beautiful girls, I thought of this when I saw her and wanted so badly to just walk up to her and say this.
“Listen, I know you probably got a boyfriend and get this a lot. I don’t need to know your name, your number or even a response. I just wanted to tell you that you’re gorgeous.” Exit stage left.
Ghostland Observatory
Just started listening to them this weekend. Bought all their music on iTunes and tickets to see them live at Webster Hall @ 7:30pm on Friday, 28th. I highly recommend everyone buy their music and get to their show. You will not be disappointed!
Txt Msging
Having spent a fair amount of time on Match.com looking for girls to date, I’ve learned several things. The most important and mind boggling one is how offended girls get when you txt msg them trying to make plans. I’m sorry but I work from 8:30 to 7-7:30 and sit in an open office where I can’t exactly have a conversation that isn’t business related. I’d still like to see you and I’m not being lazy, it’s just easy for me to txt msg throughout the day and when we meet and talk for 3 hours, isn’t that enough? I just met you, so stop demanding that I make a phone call if I’m serious about wanting to see you.
I’m Back
Enough said.
6th Date of the Year
I’ve written about my crazy dating schedule on here thanks to 1 New Year’s Eve make out session, 1 local bar run in and 4 match.com dates. I’ve never been on a second date with any of the 5 and tonight I have my 6th date. I also have another match.com girl interested and I decided to pay yahoo for their services after 2 girls wanted to talk with me. I have something lined up with her next week when she’s back in town. The girls I’ve been interested in have been so busy with their lives, typical NYC girl that they just can’t get out of their own way to be happy.
With 4 more promising dates and 2 girls from the previous 5 that I’m actually interested in, maybe I’ll sneak out with a girlfriend. I’ll settle for a second date with them and see what happens. I’m hoping tonight’s girl is cuter then her pictures show because she looks hot in one, not so great in another so I’m hoping.
BTW, Go Giants! No one believe in my team all year and finally we’re getting some respect and by some respect I mean very little.
New Match Girl
I’ve been having a lot of success with getting dates from girls off match.com. Last night after the girl I really liked once again ask to raincheck our plans, I decided that I’m done pursuing her. As great as she might be I’m not going to chase her if she’s the type that’s so busy with other stuff. I’m moving on to someone who would actually like to see me and hang out. Bye.
I went out for drinks with a girl who I started to talk to through match.com. I also realized that once I have a beer or two in me that I tend to talk too much and stop becoming such a great listener. I need to make that adjustment. She looked attractive in her pictures so that part was a check. When I met her in real life, she was much more beautiful then those pictures ever showed. She was a little nerdy and I thought she checked out the guy working the door at the restaurant but she mentioned that he just looked weird for some reason. I actually really like this girl and I’m looking forward to seeing her again. After a few drinks I walked her to the subway, hug, kiss on the cheek and she’s off.
We sort of made plans to get brunch on Sunday well before we made plans for last night and I joked all night about canceling them and we’d laugh. I assume those plans are still intact and I’m looking forward to the second date.
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